This Couple Have Been Married for Over 40 Years After Meeting as Toddlers on a Polio Ward
They have just one regret about contracting the disease.
Sue and David Smith were both just toddlers when they contracted polio in 1949. But it was this devastating disease that would bring them together.
An outbreak of polio tore through their hometown of Gravesend, in Kent – part of a global epidemic that hit the UK, Canada, and the US, where it claimed more than 2,700 lives.
The couple, who have now been married for 45 years, were placed in cots on the same isolation unit near Gravesend in Kent.
David and Sue shared their story with Global Citizen as part of a campaign to raise awareness of polio, and help put a stop to the disease worldwide.
“I don't know for sure how I contracted polio but I had been at a party and the next day everyone at the party was put in isolation. I was in hospital for six months,” said Sue, who was 15 months old when she contracted the disease, just a few years before a vaccine was developed that would eradicate it almost completely.
“Polio has had a lasting impact on my right leg, which is two-and-a-half inches shorter, so I wear a calliper [leg brace]. David is more severely affected and he has always worn a full-length calliper on his left leg.”
As David and Sue recovered from their stay in hospital and grew up, they became friends despite going to different schools, and were always aware of their first meeting on the ward.
But it was when they got talking at an end-of-college party that their relationship developed, and they began meeting more frequently before getting married in 1973.
Up until the 1980s, polio was still paralysing people in the UK, and Sue and David are two of more than 120,000 men and women in the UK suffering from the after-effects of the devastating disease.
It is fast-acting, affecting the body within hours in some cases, and produces extreme muscle weakness and paralysis, seriously affecting future growth. In some cases, it can be fatal.
David and Sue Smith on their wedding day in 1973.
David and Sue were lucky. They recovered and have been able to live full, active lives; David worked as accountant while Sue was a teacher. They also have two grown-up sons, Adam and Oliver, and are now the proud grandparents of four children.
Despite the long-lasting effect polio has had on their mobility, they have never found it to have a negative impact on their family life.
“Having polio and bringing up two children impacted the children in a good way, because they learnt to adapt,” said Sue.
“For example, when we went to the seaside, while most children just ran to the sea, Adam and Oliver would help get out the chairs and picnic blanket.”
She added: “We have always babysat our grandchildren and they have got used to being carried up the stairs under my arm, in the same way that our sons were. And they’ve learnt to sit down and shuffle on their bottoms to get down the stairs, because that’s how granny does it.”
David, though, does have one big regret about polio’s impact on his life: he has never been able to dance with Sue.
“We’re both musical. I play the guitar and Sue plays the piano. And I feel that dancing is one thing that polio has stopped us from enjoying,” he said.
A doctor in Afghanistan, where polio is still endemic, assesses a child.
Polio is still endemic in Pakistan, Afghanistan and Nigeria – meaning that it has always been a constant threat in those countries – but a cheap vaccine is available that could put a stop to it for good.
The fight against polio is almost complete. Since the World Health Assembly passed a resolution to eradicate it in 1988, global incidence of the disease has decreased by 99.9%, and an estimated 10 million people today are walking who would otherwise have been paralysed.
Samima, a volunteer polio vaccinator in Afghanistan, marks the door of a household after vaccinating children.
If the campaign is successful, polio will be only the second human disease in history that has ever been eradicated – the first being small pox.
Sue said: “It’s not just a developing world problem: it’s something people in the UK need to think about. Polio still exists and it doesn’t need to. We should all be involved in the last push to eradicate the disease.”