Dressed in Colours Worn by Her Rapist, South African Woman Walks 700km to Inspire Hope
By Kim Harrisberg
JOHANNESBURG, Oct 12 (Thomson Reuters Foundation) — Hiking through fields and along dirt roads, a South African rape survivor finished a more than 700 kilometer walk on Saturday across a country known for violence against women.
Leilani Kuter walked 27km for 27 days to mark 27 years since she survived a brutal rape, raising money along the way for survivors of sexual assault and encouraging women "not to give up on themselves”.
"This walk has forced me to release my emotions and speak out so others feel brave enough to do so too," said the 45-year-old.
After being violently raped in 1992 and left for dead, Kuter went on to start a successful marketing agency and a dating site. It took her 10 years to share her trauma with others.
"I numbed my pain for so many years," Kuter told the Thomson Reuters Foundation by phone.
Women in South Africa, a nation with a history of violence and profound inequality, have endured a spate of rapes, kidnappings, and murders in recent years.
Around 3,000 women were murdered in 2018 — around one every three hours — which is more than five times higher than the global average, according to the World Health Organisation.
Kuter's walk aimed to show that "everyone deserves to be safe" in a country where only three in 10 women feel comfortable walking at night according to the 2017 Women, Peace, and Security Index.
Kuter crossed five South African provinces and was joined along the way by students, survivors of sexual assault, and parents of children killed in violent crimes.
"I feel exhausted but happy. There is not one emotion I have not experienced," she said.
While walking across the country she dressed in yellow, the colour of the clothes worn by the man who raped her.
"It is actually such a happy colour," she said. "We cannot give rapists control over our lives. The rape will always be a part of me, but I make a decision every day to not let it define me," Kuter said.
Kuter said she raised around R200,000 ($13,000) for counselling and emergency comfort packs for rape survivors.
After mass protests against gender-based violence last month, President Cyril Ramaphosa announced plans to tackle the violence by strengthening the criminal justice system and training counsellors.
"We need to listen to girls and women when they speak out. We need to believe them," said Kuter.
If you live in South Africa and have experienced sexual or gender-based violence, you can find resources for advice and support here.