My Name Is Thiru. I'm a Dancer, Torture Survivor, and a Refugee
What does it mean to leave your home without knowing when you'll return?
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My name is Thiru and I am 27 years old.
I’m from Sri Lanka. My family are still there — my mum, my dad and my sister. I’ve been in London since September 2010.
I didn’t have a choice about coming here. The Sri Lankan civil war was ending in 2009. The government arrested lots of young Tamil people. I disappeared for six months. My parents thought it wasn’t safe for me to be there any more.
I was quite politically active. I express my will through art, performing arts. 2009 was a very crucial and critical time. The government killed many Tamils and grabbed our land.
I was kidnapped for six months. It was horrible. It was the worst thing I could ever have imagined. I was tortured. To get me out, my family had to pay a ransom. After I was released, I was told I could not leave the country. But I had to go because I needed to save my life. I wasn’t myself. Just bone and flesh. I didn’t have a soul or anything.
My parents helped pay for me to get out of Sri Lanka. I came to the UK by plane. I’m lucky if I compare it to other people, who come through Calais.
It was my first time coming to the UK. I didn’t even think about travelling on the plane. The only thing I was aware of was that I was leaving my family. I’m leaving my mum.
Sri Lanka used to be colonised by England, so when I was little, studying history, we talked about England, we talked about the Queen. At the time, I’m sure people still believed that England was the best country, keeping human rights and respecting human rights. But, my experience totally shocked me. Because I went through detention again in the UK. I was detained for two and a half months because they didn’t believe what I told them had happened to me in Sri Lanka. They wanted to see proof. If I said I drew blood [while being tortured], they told me to show a photo to prove it. I had experience of detention in Sri Lanka, and I know it’s worse, but I was expecting Britain would treat me with respect, and give me dignity. But the detention system took my dignity away.
I don’t blame the country though. This is a beautiful country, it’s just the system.
Luckily I could speak English and I could understand what was happening. I managed to seek help from the British Red Cross and also a detainee welfare group. I found a solicitor. He is from my community, he's Tamil. He did everything as a pro-bono. He introduced me to good people that I could trust.
I was granted asylum in 2016. I still feel that I don’t belong here, but at the same time, I want to contribute to this community while I can. I’m not here to take. In my family culture, we give more than what we take.
I’ve gained a qualification in health and social care and started volunteering with Migrants Organise. I help run poetry and youth groups. Now I’m studying dance movement and psychotherapy at Goldsmiths University in London. I love dance. I move and perform a lot. It makes other people happy and it makes me happy. So, I thought, why not combine my health background with dance, to heal myself and to heal other people? You don’t have to be a dancer, you just need to allow your body and soul to move, to break the barriers, to come out and express what you’re thinking and what you’re feeling. It’s a safe world.
As told to Yosola Olorunshola.
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